{"id":29419,"date":"2023-07-17T05:13:25","date_gmt":"2023-07-17T05:13:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newmessage.org\/vi\/?page_id=29419"},"modified":"2023-07-17T05:13:25","modified_gmt":"2023-07-17T05:13:25","slug":"discernment","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/the-message\/volume-5\/wisdom-greater-community-volume-2\/discernment\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eadn Bi\u1ebft"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><!-- 4.1 Verse --><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"tabgroup \"><ul class=\"tabs\"><li><a href=\"#tabs-1\">Th\u00f4ng tin<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#tabs-2\">Chu\u0301 thi\u0301ch<\/a><\/li><\/ul>\n <div id=\"tabs-1\"><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.community.newmessage.org\/discernment\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-55194 imgborder\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newmessage.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Discernment-RI.001-600x314.jpeg\" alt=\"Revelation image for Discernment\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"revelation_details\"><em>Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 v\u1edbi<br \/>\nMarshall Vian Summers<br \/>\nv\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 22 th\u00e1ng 3 n\u0103m 1992<br \/>\nt\u1ea1i Boulder, Colorado, M\u1ef9<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"toggle toggle-white\"><h4 class=\"trigger \"><span class=\"t_ico\"><\/span><a href=\"#\">V\u00ea\u0300 ba\u0309n v\u0103n na\u0300y<\/a><\/h4><div class=\"toggle_container \"><br \/>\n<p>\u041a\u0430\u043a\u0432\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0447\u0435\u0442\u0435\u0442\u0435 \u0432 \u0442\u043e\u0437\u0438 \u0442\u0435\u043a\u0441\u0442 \u0435 \u043a\u043e\u043f\u0438\u0435 \u043d\u0430 \u043e\u0440\u0438\u0433\u0438\u043d\u0430\u043b\u043d\u0438\u044f \u0433\u043b\u0430\u0441 \u043d\u0430 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newmessage.org\/vietnamese-international\/the-message\/important-terms#aa\">\u0410\u043d\u0433\u0435\u043b\u0441\u043a\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0421\u044a\u0441\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0438\u0435<\/a> \u0433\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0440\u0435\u0449 \u0447\u0440\u0435\u0437 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newmessage.org\/vietnamese-international\/who-is-marshall-vian-summers\/\">\u041c\u0435\u0441\u0438\u044f\u0442\u0430 \u041c\u0430\u0440\u0448\u0430\u043b \u0412\u0438\u0430\u043d \u0421\u0430\u043c\u044a\u0440\u0441<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>\u0422\u0443\u043a,\u043e\u0440\u0438\u0433\u0438\u043d\u0430\u043b\u043d\u0430\u0442\u0430 \u043a\u043e\u043c\u0443\u043d\u0438\u043a\u0430\u0446\u0438\u044f \u043e\u0442 \u0411\u043e\u0433, \u043a\u043e\u044f\u0442\u043e \u0441\u044a\u0449\u0435\u0441\u0442\u0432\u0443\u0432\u0430 \u0438\u0437\u0432\u044a\u043d \u0434\u0443\u043c\u0438\u0442\u0435,\u0435 \u043f\u0440\u0435\u0432\u0435\u0434\u0435\u043d\u0430 \u043d\u0430 \u0447\u043e\u0432\u0435\u0448\u043a\u0438 \u0435\u0437\u0438\u043a \u0438 \u0440\u0430\u0437\u0431\u0438\u0440\u0430\u043d\u0435 \u043e\u0442 \u0410\u043d\u0433\u0435\u043b\u0441\u043a\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0421\u044a\u0441\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0438\u0435 \u043a\u043e\u0435\u0442\u043e \u043d\u0430\u0431\u043b\u044e\u0434\u0430\u0432\u0430 \u0441\u0432\u0435\u0442\u0430. \u0421\u043b\u0435\u0434 \u0442\u043e\u0432\u0430 \u0410\u043d\u0433\u0435\u043b\u0441\u043a\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0421\u044a\u0441\u043b\u043e\u0432\u0438\u0435 \u043f\u0440\u0435\u0434\u0430\u0432\u0430 \u0411\u043e\u0436\u0438\u0435\u0442\u043e \u0421\u044a\u043e\u0431\u0449\u0435\u043d\u0438\u0435 \u0447\u0440\u0435\u0437 \u041c\u0435\u0441\u0438\u044f\u0442\u0430, \u043a\u043e\u0435\u0442\u043e \u0441\u043b\u0435\u0434 \u0442\u043e\u0432\u0430 \u0435 \u0437\u0430\u043f\u0438\u0441\u0430\u043d\u043e \u0438 \u043d\u0430\u043f\u0440\u0430\u0432\u0435\u043d\u043e \u0432\u044a\u0432 \u0432\u0438\u0434 \u0432\u044a\u0437\u043c\u043e\u0436\u0435\u043d \u0437\u0430 \u043f\u0440\u0435\u0434\u0441\u0442\u0430\u0432\u044f\u043d\u0435 \u043d\u0430 \u0445\u043e\u0440\u0430\u0442\u0430.<\/p>\n<p>\u0412 \u0442\u043e\u0437\u0438 \u0437\u0430\u0431\u0435\u043b\u0435\u0436\u0438\u0442\u0435\u043b\u0435\u043d \u043f\u0440\u043e\u0446\u0435\u0441, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newmessage.org\/vietnamese-international\/the-message\/important-terms#voice\">\u0413\u043b\u0430\u0441\u0430 \u043d\u0430 \u041e\u0442\u043a\u0440\u043e\u0432\u0435\u043d\u0438\u044f\u0442\u0430<\/a> \u0433\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0440\u0438 \u043e\u0442\u043d\u043e\u0432\u043e. \u0421\u043b\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0438 \u0417\u0432\u0443\u043a\u0430 \u0441\u0430 \u043d\u0430 \u0441\u0432\u0435\u0442\u0430. \u0412\u0438\u0435 \u0431\u0438\u0445\u0442\u0435 \u043c\u043e\u0433\u043b\u0438 \u0434\u0430 \u0441\u0442\u0435 \u043f\u043e\u043b\u0443\u0447\u0430\u0442\u0435\u043b \u043d\u0430 \u0442\u043e\u0437\u0438 \u0434\u0430\u0440 \u043d\u0430 \u041e\u0442\u043a\u0440\u043e\u0432\u0435\u043d\u0438\u0435\u0442\u043e \u0438 \u0431\u0438\u0445\u0442\u0435 \u043c\u043e\u0433\u043b\u0438 \u0434\u0430 \u043f\u043e\u043b\u0443\u0447\u0438\u0442\u0435 \u043d\u0435\u0433\u043e\u0432\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0443\u043d\u0438\u043a\u0430\u043b\u043d\u043e\u0442\u043e \u0421\u044a\u043e\u0431\u0449\u0435\u043d\u0438\u0435 \u0437\u0430 \u0432\u0430\u0441 \u0438 \u0437\u0430 \u0432\u0430\u0448\u0438\u044f \u0436\u0438\u0432\u043e\u0442.<\/p>\n<br \/>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<p><\/div>\n<div id=\"tabs-2\"><br \/>\n<em>Chu\u0301 thi\u0301ch cho \u0111o\u0323c gia\u0309:<br \/>\nBa\u0309n di\u0323ch na\u0300y \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c \u0111\u01b0a cho H\u00f4\u0323i b\u01a1\u0309i m\u00f4\u0323t ho\u0323c sinh cu\u0309a Th\u00f4ng \u0110i\u00ea\u0323p M\u01a1\u0301i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i \u0111a\u0303 xung phong \u0111\u00ea\u0309 phi\u00ean di\u0323ch ba\u0300i vi\u00ea\u0301t nguy\u00ean ba\u0309n ti\u00ea\u0301ng Anh. Chu\u0301ng t\u00f4i pha\u0301t ha\u0300nh ba\u0300i di\u0323ch na\u0300y cho th\u00ea\u0301 gi\u01a1\u0301i d\u01b0\u01a1\u0301i phi\u00ean ba\u0309n \u0111\u00e2\u0300u na\u0300y \u0111\u00ea\u0309 mo\u0323i ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i co\u0301 c\u01a1 h\u00f4\u0323i li\u00ean k\u00ea\u0301t v\u01a1\u0301i m\u00f4\u0323t ph\u00e2\u0300n cu\u0309a Th\u00f4ng \u0110i\u00ea\u0323p M\u01a1\u0301i trong ng\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u0303 cu\u0309a ho\u0323.<\/em><br \/>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div align=\"right\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"fb-like\" data-href=\"\" data-layout=\"button_count\" data-action=\"like\" data-show-faces=\"false\" data-share=\"false\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"fb-share-button\" data-layout=\"button_count\"> <\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"fb_iframe_widget\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/godsnewmessage?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" class=\"twitter-follow-button\" data-show-count=\"false\">Follow @godsnewmessage<\/a><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div> <\/div> \n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc trong Nh\u1eefng B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0110i \u0111\u1ebfn Tri Th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u201cCh\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.\u201d H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u00fac n\u00e0y v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y. Khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tham gia trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. H\u00e3y c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00f3i chung v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trung th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao g\u1ed3m trong \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ra ngo\u00e0i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan s\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tra ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? N\u01a1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u tra l\u00e0 khi nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7\u2014b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang v\u1edbi ai, \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n nhanh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n? Cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra n\u00e0y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tham gia v\u00e0o n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 soi x\u00e9t n\u00e0y, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ng\u0103n ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nghi v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m tra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trung th\u1ef1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e2ng cao ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0, th\u1eadt v\u1eady, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u1ea3 l\u00fac n\u00e0y v\u00e0 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft hay thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u1edf v\u1edbi ai, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec. V\u00ec v\u1eady, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u1eadt v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi ngay c\u1ea3 v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129, \u201cCh\u00e0, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3,\u201d nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0110\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, Ch\u00fang T\u00f4i s\u1ebd trao cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n trong Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a C\u1ed9ng \u0110\u1ed3ng V\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tra \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cS\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 canh b\u1ea1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 thi \u00e0? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. Th\u1eadt ra, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy c\u1eadp Tri Th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n cho n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t cho n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n truy c\u1eadp n\u00f3? Th\u1eadt ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham gia v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 T\u00f4i: \u201cDi\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 \u0111ang cho t\u00f4i b\u00e0i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ai? Di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin c\u1eady kh\u00f4ng? Di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu S\u1ef1 Kh\u00f4n Ngoan th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1eeba tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb l\u1eeba l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.&#8221; Th\u1eadt ra, T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy \u0111o\u00e1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 T\u00f4i v\u00e0 v\u1ebd b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 b\u1ee9c tranh n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf v\u1edbi Tri Th\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a S\u1ef1 Kh\u00f4n Ngoan c\u1ee7a T\u00f4i. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng tin s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu Tri Th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, Tri Th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 sai, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. L\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn bao xa, s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd\u2014n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u00e1n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0o l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh , th\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? V\u00ec Tri Th\u1ee9c b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201ckh\u00f4ng.\u201d N\u1ebfu Tri Th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c,\u201d th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng.\u201d \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh l\u00edu. \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn \u0111i ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn qua kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb lung lay b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng, s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p, s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 \u0111ang giam c\u1ea7m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cay \u0111\u1eafng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd v\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1edfi m\u1edf n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc theo th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng theo nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng y\u00eau d\u1ea5u ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ho\u00e0nh tr\u00e1ng. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft\u2014m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ee7a Tri Th\u1ee9c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u00e0y. L\u00e0m sao T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1ebf v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi. \u201c\u00d4ng \u1ea5y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i. L\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1ebf v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i?\u201d T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00ec s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trau d\u1ed3i trong m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 r\u0169 b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, m\u00e0 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 v\u00e0 \u0111ang tu\u00e2n theo Quy\u1ec1n L\u1ef1c v\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1i m\u00e0 bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5y. S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00fang c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac c\u1ea7n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bao l\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i T\u00e2m Tr\u00ed Th\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u00f2 m\u00f2 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd, th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd theo b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o? M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1c ti\u00eau ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n Tri Th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ef1a theo \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c Tri Th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 Tri Th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c Tri Th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng bi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh hay x\u1ea5u xa, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao Ch\u00fang T\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o ra \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 Tri Th\u1ee9c tr\u1ed7i l\u00ean. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, Ch\u00fang T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng trong su\u1ed1t c\u00e1c b\u00e0i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n cao h\u01a1n, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u01a1n, c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n, h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec T\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec T\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t cao h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u chi ti\u1ebft v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. H\u00e3y t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ai \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1ee9 hai: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean d\u00ednh l\u00edu \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c nhau. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh l\u00edu \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd, duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ngo\u00e0i hai c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. H\u00e3y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. Sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">V\u00ec ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi ai v\u00e0 cho m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eadt l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng trong. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ec3u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u1edbt l\u1edd. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 b\u1ecb r\u1ee7i ro n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh sai l\u1ea7m. V\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n t\u00e1c th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd minh h\u1ecda \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 cam k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng, t\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i theo c\u00e1ch ph\u00e2n t\u00edch m\u00e0 theo c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. Tri Th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean Tri Th\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean Tri Th\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1eadt ra, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng c\u00e1c ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u00ea ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ee9c tranh tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa h\u00e3y quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i Tri Th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c trong C\u1ed9ng \u0110\u1ed3ng V\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1i d\u1ef1a theo qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, do \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tham gia c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 trau d\u1ed3i s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft th\u1eadt s\u1ef1.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd T\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng, s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u00fa vui, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o trong ch\u00fang ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u1ed7n h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o trong ch\u00fang, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi\u2014b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201cT\u00f4i coi tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? T\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?&#8221; Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 coi tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hai l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u1eadt s\u1ef1: B\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt mang l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, th\u00ec s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, \u201cT\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 g\u00ec, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n coi tr\u1ecdng Tri Th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n Tri Th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n \u1edf g\u1ea7n Tri Th\u1ee9c, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3. N\u00f3 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Tri Th\u1ee9c, th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n. Tri Th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp. N\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3\u2014m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao khi Ch\u00fang T\u00f4i quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, Ch\u00fang T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi Tri Th\u1ee9c, th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi Tri Th\u1ee9c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n r\u0169 b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i. Nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau sai l\u1ea7m r\u1edbt c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 sai l\u1ea7m; \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n r\u1edbt c\u00f9ng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi Tri Th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1; th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u1eafn. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 trao th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tham gia v\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n Tri Th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 Tri Th\u1ee9c tr\u1ed7i l\u00ean\u2014ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf, nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh l\u1edbn lao, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c r\u0169 b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1m m\u00e2y che khu\u1ea5t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi c\u01a1n m\u00ea. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi say r\u01b0\u1ee3u ph\u1ea3i r\u1eeda m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o l\u1ea1i. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi say m\u00ea m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd say m\u00ea quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kinh doanh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; h\u1ecd b\u1ecb th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5. H\u1ecd say m\u00ea. S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m v\u1edbi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec v\u1eady h\u1ecd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n h\u1ecd trong nh\u1eefng \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0y. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ph\u1edbt l\u1edd.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e1n cho n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i\u2014kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec k\u00e9m h\u01a1n. Tri Th\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec k\u00e9m h\u01a1n. S\u1ebd m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi l\u1ed7i l\u1eabm l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y xung quanh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 nh\u1ecf ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft n\u00ean trao b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o v\u00e0 n\u00ean ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o, th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u th\u1ef1c x\u1ea3y ra.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c trong C\u1ed9ng \u0110\u1ed3ng V\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch n\u00f3; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi n\u00f3. Ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng sai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7\u2014m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi, \u201cL\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c?\u201d V\u00e0 T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.\u201d B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1eebng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 to l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 nh\u1ecf cho m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn thay v\u00ec tr\u1ea3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 l\u1edbn cho m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ecf. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c trong C\u1ed9ng \u0110\u1ed3ng V\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1i, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd trao cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 to l\u1edbn. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ho\u1eb7c k\u00ecm l\u1ea1i trong ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi, \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng?\u201d V\u00e0 T\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch trao cho h\u1ecd th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u1eb7ng. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Tri Th\u1ee9c trong C\u1ed9ng \u0110\u1ed3ng V\u0129 \u0110\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng? Th\u00ec h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cho c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a T\u00f4i, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft y\u00eau c\u1ea7u th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao cho b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc trong Nh\u1eefng B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0110i \u0111\u1ebfn Tri Th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u201cCh\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.\u201d H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u00fac n\u00e0y v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y. Khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tham gia trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. H\u00e3y c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t n\u00f3i chung v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch trung th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao g\u1ed3m trong \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ra ngo\u00e0i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quan s\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y.<br \/>\nV\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tra ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? N\u01a1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u tra l\u00e0 khi nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7\u2014b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang v\u1edbi ai, \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n nhanh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":62,"featured_media":0,"parent":27754,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-leftsidebar.php","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[76,498,484],"tags":[1411,1412,677,629,854,868],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/29419"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/62"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29419"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/29419\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29422,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/29419\/revisions\/29422"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/27754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29419"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29419"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.v6.newmessage.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29419"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}